BEING Artificial- i guess many know what it means, because its generally happening in everyone's life. You know you don't want to talk to someone, but that someone has been with you since a long time,or is just a mutual friend, and you are compelled to talk to that person, so in this case, you are being artificial to that person.
When this happens to you, it devastates you. You think that someone is just a good friend, sweet, and trust worthy, but later you find out they were just being artificial , its bad. You find out that they were keeping secrets from you, talking at your back, going out on secret trips , you just forget the hugs,kisses, fun you had with them, because betrayal is painful. I've had many moments of life when people really don't think i am the best to keep secrets, and avoid me while sharing their personal problems. In one way, i was safe from distractions, but, otherwise i felt a bit low when people couldn't trust me with their stuff. If not having a juicy story in my life is a disadvantage, then keep your secrets away from me. Thinking about what's wrong with yourself is only going to bring down your confidence levels.
Sometimes, you just feel you are not a part of this world,not trust-worthy, not fun enough, not a secretive or adventurous person, and that it why people have been avoiding you. You may always want to be with some peer group, but they might be acting artificially with you, but you still do have friends of your own kind, you just need to go with the ones who understand and value you. This doesn't mean you don't have to talk to the artificial ones, you just have to show your backs at time, and be the same artificial to them. Its always important to value only those who value you. Feeling a complexity about fitting in to this world and getting included with your favorite peer group is just normal, its up to us to take it to our heart or else move on with life. You need to remember you have a long life, and you have plenty more opportunities to meet new people.
When this happens to you, it devastates you. You think that someone is just a good friend, sweet, and trust worthy, but later you find out they were just being artificial , its bad. You find out that they were keeping secrets from you, talking at your back, going out on secret trips , you just forget the hugs,kisses, fun you had with them, because betrayal is painful. I've had many moments of life when people really don't think i am the best to keep secrets, and avoid me while sharing their personal problems. In one way, i was safe from distractions, but, otherwise i felt a bit low when people couldn't trust me with their stuff. If not having a juicy story in my life is a disadvantage, then keep your secrets away from me. Thinking about what's wrong with yourself is only going to bring down your confidence levels.
Sometimes, you just feel you are not a part of this world,not trust-worthy, not fun enough, not a secretive or adventurous person, and that it why people have been avoiding you. You may always want to be with some peer group, but they might be acting artificially with you, but you still do have friends of your own kind, you just need to go with the ones who understand and value you. This doesn't mean you don't have to talk to the artificial ones, you just have to show your backs at time, and be the same artificial to them. Its always important to value only those who value you. Feeling a complexity about fitting in to this world and getting included with your favorite peer group is just normal, its up to us to take it to our heart or else move on with life. You need to remember you have a long life, and you have plenty more opportunities to meet new people.
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