For an average teenage girl under the age of 18,having or not having a boy-friend is a big concern. 50% of girls are into some sort of boyfriend commitment before they could even enter college. And the rest are the confused ones, the one-sided, the good girls, and the 'not ready for commitment' types. The girls with a boyfriend have fun, eat, hangout or that is what people think , without knowing about consequences. They never know what kind of a person they are dating. Most of the relationships start with the word called 'friend', turning into 'boyfriend' then a few turning into 'lover' and very very few keep up their words.
So, why is it so compulsory for people to have a pair. The first question in truth or dare is 'who is your boy-friend ?'. Is it so necessary that i should have a crush or boy-friend by the time i turn 18, just for the cause of breaking up anyway. Love - that is existing in this world isn't easy to conquer . People just use that one word so easily to describe their feelings. Most teenage stories are about lust and not love. And many stories just for satisfying their peer group, How many high-school lovers marry or stay together for the rest of their lives ? How many lovers have stayed at home to convince their parents instead of running away and struggling for their lives.
Basically, the relationships that you get into during high - school and college are nothing but excitement, peer-pressure and attraction. It's really not the right time to decide whom you want in life.This change, this feeling comes into every single person, but the one who realizes its true meaning in a real person. Differentiating your feelings is an important part of student life. Success and experience are gained in this phase. We make millions of mistakes in this period and only here we have parents to rub those marks of our faces and give us a fresh start, while they carry that pain.
Half of my friends half a pair, i have a watsapp group with pairs and me single, but that doesn't really have to compel you to have a pair.Some peer-pressure could be there telling you to fall into a relationship, don't listen to them, listen to your heart and follow your brain, things will sort out right. But, people really think maybe having a pair could boost their status.Nope- single is the new committed, because of its rarity. Be who you are , do what you want to do, make your priority list and stay happy. ENJOY LIFE !
So, why is it so compulsory for people to have a pair. The first question in truth or dare is 'who is your boy-friend ?'. Is it so necessary that i should have a crush or boy-friend by the time i turn 18, just for the cause of breaking up anyway. Love - that is existing in this world isn't easy to conquer . People just use that one word so easily to describe their feelings. Most teenage stories are about lust and not love. And many stories just for satisfying their peer group, How many high-school lovers marry or stay together for the rest of their lives ? How many lovers have stayed at home to convince their parents instead of running away and struggling for their lives.
Basically, the relationships that you get into during high - school and college are nothing but excitement, peer-pressure and attraction. It's really not the right time to decide whom you want in life.This change, this feeling comes into every single person, but the one who realizes its true meaning in a real person. Differentiating your feelings is an important part of student life. Success and experience are gained in this phase. We make millions of mistakes in this period and only here we have parents to rub those marks of our faces and give us a fresh start, while they carry that pain.
Half of my friends half a pair, i have a watsapp group with pairs and me single, but that doesn't really have to compel you to have a pair.Some peer-pressure could be there telling you to fall into a relationship, don't listen to them, listen to your heart and follow your brain, things will sort out right. But, people really think maybe having a pair could boost their status.Nope- single is the new committed, because of its rarity. Be who you are , do what you want to do, make your priority list and stay happy. ENJOY LIFE !
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